Saturday, March 21, 2026

The Pitt and ICE

If you're not watching the Pitt, we're already into Season Two. This is a show in which each season takes place in a single day -- Season Two is the fourth of July. Every episode is one hour in that day.

There had already been a nod toward Trump's brutal immigration policy, with a young Haitian woman who has custody of her ten year old brother. The parents, seized by ICE at their immigration hearing, had been deported. The kid blew two of his fingers off off playing with fireworks with other kids in their housing complex. "Wouldn't [the kid] be better off with his parents?" a clueless first-year student asks.

July is when you want to avoid hospitals, FYI. It's when all the new students, doctors, and residents start their year.

Anyway, on this week's episode, Thursday night, ICE agents showed up dragging a tiny woman in plastic cuffs. She 'fell down the stairs,' they claimed, and injured her shoulder. The ICE agents were huge men in masks, barking orders and refusing the leave the woman alone with the doctors. Eventually, abruptly, they decided to drag the woman out before her treatment was complete, and when a nurse, Jesse, tries to intervene, they tackle him, cuff him, and drag him away too.

It was extremely upsetting, and -- according to viewers from Minnesota -- extremely accurate.

As you can imagine, MAGA cultists are crying and screaming about the episode, which was filmed months ago, way before Minnesota kicked off. I doubt any of those throwing tantrums actually watch the Pitt, which is really for people who are smarter than most MAGAs. (I mean, who isn't smarter than a Trump supporter at this point?) But they're offended and this is treason and also propaganda.

Weirdo losers. Let's hope they shut up and faded into rightful obscurity post-Midterms.




ETA: See also this.



Spring Arrives

Spring is arriving in Fayetteville just in time for Spring Break. All the flowering trees are flowering; all the other trees are putting out bright green leaves. The grass is coming up silky and thick and green as the leaves.

Today we're expecting a high of 90, which is a record high for this date. Same tomorrow. After that, it might cool off (like, highs in the 70s) for a little while.

The kid and his husband are flying to Maryland to visit friends there. I'm babysitting one of my grandcats while they're gone. 

What are my plans for Spring Break? I'm going to write a lot and read a lot and take the dog to the dog park. Maybe Dr Skull and I will have lunch at a fancy restaurant one day.

I'm living in paradise.




Thursday, March 19, 2026

Evangelical Cultists and Pedophilia

Another Duggar son has been arrested for sexually assaulting a child.

At some point, we have to recognize that Christian Cultists are a true danger to children and act accordingly.

ETA: Yes, this is slightly ironic. It's what Christian Cultists say whenever someone even tangentially related to or involved with a trans person commits a crime. Though it is worth noting that far more "Christians" commit crimes, sexually assault children, and shoot people to death than anyone trans or trans-adjacent does. Also more white cis men. 

The advice, by the way, from the Christian Cult on how to stop your sons from sexually assaulting their siblings and other small children? Don't let boys change diapers, make sure your small children don't run around naked after their baths, and teach your tiny daughters how to wear dresses without being 'immodest.' These are children under the age of three, by the way. How *do* we keep young men from sexually assaulting infants? It's a puzzler.

Tuesday, March 17, 2026

My Actual Birthday

It's today! I can't believe how old I am. Or rather, I can't believe how young being 66 seems. I remember at 16 thinking 33 was old. Ha!

Anyway, here is an update on what being old is like:

Every day, something new aches. Right now it's the tendon I bruised during the snow storm and also my spine. ("My spiiiine!" I cry often.) A week ago it was my hip, after I slept on it a little too long one night. Sleeping! Sleeping gives me injuries now.

I wake up early now. Not at five a.m. as I was when we first moved here, but I'm up and dressed by 7:30 most days. Partly this is the dog, who begins demanding his walk around 7:00. But also it's because I'm in bed by 9:30 or ten most nights. Me! Who seldom managed to sleep before 3:00 or 4:00 a.m.!

I'm eating a lot more cake than I used to. I'm sure this isn't good for me, but on the other hand, who's going to stop me?

I spend a lot of time in doctor's offices. Mostly this is for Dr Skull's appointments, but some are also for me.

I take exercises as seriously as I did when I was 30, when I ran a couple miles every day and also took my dog for a three mile walk most days. Some of my aches arise from this, but most are because I'm ooooold.

I love being retired. Day after day with nothing planned. I lie on the couch and read books. I take the dog for at least two walks a day. I go to the library. I write whenever and as much as I like. I never have to teach composition again. There's plenty of time to do laundry and the dishes. (It's amazing how much less annoying dishes and the laundry are when you aren't exhausted and also you have plenty of time.)

I am extremely glad I don't have to depend solely on my social security. Medicare, on the other hand, is wonderful. I got a lengthy statement in the mail yesterday for all of Dr Skull's home health care, and the big news was on page one: "Amount you may owe: $0.00."

Granted, this is only because we can afford to pay for Part B and Part G, but still.

I'm liking being 66 a lot, I guess is the conclusion here. May it long continue.

He just wants to sit in my lap all day long, is that so much to ask?



Monday, March 16, 2026

It's My Birthday

 Well, not until tomorrow. But we had a party yesterday, with order-in Italian and this:


A leaning-tower of carrot cake, which I made my own self, since Dr Skull cannot make cakes at the moment. I am not a fifth-generation baker, as you can probably tell. Still, it was tasty. The cream cheese frosting was especially good.

The kid and his husband and one of their grad school friends came over; also Uncle Charger. We had a good time. Next week is the kid's spring break and he and his husband are flying off to Maryland to visit friends. Maryland is where the kid plans to move if the situation does not improve in Arkansas.

The kid painted this for my birthday:


Jasper and my little cat Junti, may her memory be a blessing, cuddling together for once.

It was 20 degrees and wimdy when I took the dog to the park this morning. There were two big dogs there so he had someone to run with.


Thursday, March 12, 2026

Huckleberry Sanders

Sarah Huckster Sanders, our current governor, spent yesterday bragging about how she is going to force every public university and public school in Arkansas to install a Turning Point USA club. For the students.

(Student clubs are usually asked for, organized and run by students. This, clearly, will be something else -- enforced, organized, and run by the state. You know. Like Hitler Youth.)

In case you forgot what Turning Point USA is, it's a giant grift formerly run by Charlie Kirk, who was assassinated by a high powered rifle just at the very moment he was claiming gun violence was not a problem, and if it was a problem, it was only because a couple of trans people had shot people.

Turning Point USA exists to make money for those who are running it, to support Trump, and to hurt education. To be clear, they want to turn education into indoctrination for the MAGA point of view, with all its bigotry and hatred. 

They claim to be Christian, but it's a specific kind of Christianity: one that hates the poor, despises the immigrant, and wants to erase from existence anyone who isn't pretty much exactly what Kirk was: a podgy, smug, reactionary white cis guy. (Or "white male man," as Erica Kirk phrased it yesterday.)


Charlie Kirk, the grifter, is now dead. So now his wife, Erica, has abandoned her two children, ages four and two, to continue the grift. Sarah Huckster Sanders, who is grift all the way down herself, has happily joined hands with Erica.

After Trump is gone, all these losers will fall back into oblivion, their natural state.


Wednesday, March 11, 2026

Bagels in Fayetteville

When I first came to Arkansas, back in the previous century, you could not get bagels here at all, not even the terrible supermarket kind. Later, we could get Lender's at the Walmart. When I returned to Arkansas, in 2002, even Fort Smith had (fairly terrible) packaged bagels. 

When we moved to Fayetteville in 2024, there was an Einstein Bagels. They're acceptable bagels, but still not great.

Last week Benny's Bagels (which is apparently a Dallas chain) opened here. It has been non-stopped packed ever since. These are real bagels, y'all. Dr Skull even approved of them, and he is as judgy as any Jew who grew up running a bakery could be.

So far it's so busy all the time that it's hard to get in there and it sells out regularly, but I'm assuming eventually it will calm down and we will have somewhere to go to get bagels when I don't feel like investing the hours it takes to make them at home.

Photo by Randi Mendolia

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Monday, March 09, 2026

Higher Prices Brought to You by an Illegal War

Trump ran on no wars, lower prices, and hurting trans people and immigrants.

Since he's delivered on the last two, I suppose conservatives are willing to give him a pass on the first two.

Oh, and he's also destroying the environment. Conservatives love destroying the environment.

What a joke this country has become.


Sunday, March 08, 2026

Adventures in Cooking

Dr Skull used to do most of the cooking around here, which was how I liked it. But his spinal issues have left him with less than stellar use of his hands, and also he cannot stand for very long. This means cooking has devolved on me.

I dislike cooking. Well, let me revise that. I like to cook occasionally, but this cooking dinner ever single day is for the fucking birds. Also, sometimes he wants lunch! 

Also, I have discovered that I can only cook about three things that Dr Skull will eat. (My staple, pasta in cream sauce, he will not touch. Or beans and rice, which is the other thing I am truly suited to cooking. He also hates curry.)

Here is what I am cooking these days:

(1) Tuna casserole

(2) Bagels (which we eat with lox and cream cheese and -- Dr Skull -- a slice of red onion)

(3) Roast chicken and asparagus

(4) Something with the leftover chicken. Like chicken pie, or chicken and noodles

(5) Takeout

I am asking you for suggestions for something I could cook which isn't pasta or beans. Help.


Thursday, March 05, 2026

Shamus Makes it to One Year Old

The dog is a year old today. 

He still likes nothing better than to sit on my lap.

Sadly, the laptop is usually there


Monday, March 02, 2026

Curse My Life

These days, we only get winter in Arkansas from late November to the first of March. Highs in the high 70s this week, and also rain. So we can't even open the windows, unless we want to live in a swamp of mold. Have to use air conditioning.

Brought to you by Global Warming is just a Leftist scam.

Saturday, February 28, 2026

Trump's New War

Apparently claiming to end (fictional) wars wasn't getting him enough attention.


I guess he thinks the American people will support him if he kills enough brown people. That's the plan. That's the only item on his agenda.

What a disgrace.



Here Comes Summer

Highs in the 70s this week. Ugh.

I'm going to miss these frosty mornings. The dog loves them too. He zooms wildly around the dog park, chasing birds and squirrels. Also leaping in the pond, which I do not love as much.


Friday, February 27, 2026

What I'm (NOT) Reading

I've hit a run of mediocre books. Not actively bad -- I kind of like really bad books, because it can be fascinating to watch them trainwreck. 

These are just books that could have worked if the writer had done this or that, but instead they decided to maunder on about some point or plot turn that doesn't matter, or describe something incoherently.

It's kind of depressing. I really need a good book to read. Where is the universe hiding them?