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Tuesday, March 15, 2016
America: Where You Can Be Free....as Long as You're Like US!
So as many of you know, the new battle against LGBT people from the Far-Right Conservatives is being waged in the bathrooms.
This is nothing new.
When the Far-Right Conservatives fought against civil rights for black people, they chose bathrooms as their battleground then as well. (Do you want black women, with their terrible diseases, putting their black bottoms on the same toilet seat as your pure white daughters?)
When Feminists tried to pass the ERA, the Far-Right Conservatives -- once again! -- chose bathrooms as their tool. (Do you want your sweet little girl to have to share the bathroom with big hairy men?)
And so here we are. If LGBT people get equal rights, your sweet little innocent daughter and your pure wife will be raped by...um...well, trans people, I guess, except (1) why would a trans man be in the woman's bathroom and (2) why would a trans woman rape a woman? She's a woman. I guess she might be a Lesbian trans woman, but even so...
Over at Rod Dreher's site he keeps on and keeps on banging this drum. Like most Christian Conservatives, though he claims to be for individual rights and liberty, in fact he's only for the rights he approves of, and liberties he approves of. You gotta be just like him and his, see, or your rights and liberties are wrong and evil, and we as a society should do away with them.
Yesterday he blogged about this sign, which offended him deeply, for reasons I can't fathom.
As some of you might know, my kid is genderqueer.
As a young queer kid, when she was eleven and twelve I mean, she had real trouble with public bathrooms. She did not perform her gender well -- she looked very much like a young boy -- so that when she went into the women's restroom, she got real trouble from the other girls.
And by "real trouble" I mean she got shouted at and (often) physically attacked by the other girls.
She considered using the men's room, but that seemed even more dangerous.
What, exactly, would Rod Dreher and his ilk have a young genderqueer person do?
(I kid: I know exactly what Rod wants young people like my kid to do: put on dresses. Grow long hair and braid it. Simper and prance. Never mind that this is not what my child is. Perform the act, Rod says, because... well, you know, I can't fathom why my child should have to act like what she is not to make Rod and his ilk happy. Seriously, I just can't.)
What my kid did was start refusing to go anywhere. We didn't go to malls, or movies, or restaurants; we couldn't go to parks. We couldn't go anywhere where she might have to use a public restroom, anywhere where she might be attacked by people (like Rod) policing her gender.
That went on for years. She's still not quite over it.
So when I see signs like that?
I love them. Those are signs of enlightenment to me. Of liberation.
Anyone who thinks otherwise can, sincerely, fuck right off.